I don't want to drive up to the pearly gates in a shiny sports car, wearing beautifully, tailored clothes, my hair expertly coiffed, and with long perfectly manicured fingernails. I want to drive up in a station wagon that has mud on the wheels from taking kids to scout camp. I want to be there with grass stains on my shoes from mowing Sister Schenck's lawn. I want to be there with a smudge of peanut butter on my shirt from making sandwiches for a sick neighbor's children. I want to be there with a little dirl under my fingernails from helping to weed someone's garden. I want to be there with children's sticky kisses on my cheeks and tears of a friend on my shoulder. I want the Lord to know I was really here and that I really lived."
~Marjorie Pay Hinckley

Monday, November 22, 2010

A Season of Thaksgiving.

For family night we had a lesson on thanksgiving and I had the kids look around the room at everything pink.

{we were at Anthony's mom's house}
Then I had them close there eyes and try to remember everything that was blue.
Of course they couldn't do it and I told them that it was because they had focused on everything that was pink instead of all the other wonderful colors that were around them.
This is how life is.
When we focus on all of the things that are bad, or sad, or going wrong in our lives, we forget to see the good.
We truly are SO blessed and need to do better at remembering that.

Monday, November 1, 2010

goodbye for now.

{thanks kate and cindy. you've inspired me}

If my computer is on the humm of it seems to draw me to it.
Is this bad? Yes.
Is it one of Satans tricks to waste our time? Yes.
I keep thinking...
but if I don't, I won't know what everyone is up to...
or,
No one will know what I am up to.
This is what I say:
who cares.
The important people will pick up the phone and call me if they want to know what is going on in my life.
And I will do the same.
I don't need a minute by minute update.
That ruins the fun of running into someone, you haven't seen in a while, at the grocery store. You used to be able to chat and say, hey, what you been up to.
But now, you already know.
So what's there to say?
I am giving a challenge to all you facebookers, bloggers, tweeters, my spacers..
give it a rest.
It will be refreshing and wonderful how much more time you have to be with family and friends...
or just having more time to relax.
or maybe do a little house work.
The possibilities are endless!

Friday, October 22, 2010

a happy sad day.


One of my very best friends is getting married today,
and I couldn't be happier for her but at the same time I am so sad.
I wish I could be there with her.
I hate that we live so far away from each other.
She's like a sister to me.
A sister I chose.
I love you Ape.
I hope your day is beautiful.
~ Chelsey

Monday, October 4, 2010

Rain is falling all around...

on the rooftops on the ground.

Rain is falling on my nose,
On my shoulders, hands, and toes.

I love the rain today.
It is like the heavens are washing away all the crap from the earth.
All my windows are open and we are breathing that wet desert air that I missed so much.
I love it.
Last night Anthony and I were watching TV and it was snowing on what ever it was that we were watching...
he looked at me and said,
"I'm really going to miss the snow."
But you know what?
I'm not!
I'm so glad I live in this beautiful desert.
Even in the middle of the summer...
living away from here made me realize the beauty of this place.
I love living by family,
I love the red mountains,
I love that my kids have cousins to play with.
(even though they could still use a few friends in the neighborhood... but that's mine and Anthony's fault cause we're never home.)
And I love that my husband loves it here to.
That's definitely happy.

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Food Blog

Remember to check out my food blog for lots of yummy & easy recipes!
{http://thestayathomemommyblog.blogspot.com}
And please, If you have one you would like to share, send it to me @
chelseydoll66@yahoo.com